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“For the children of this world are more prudent in dealing with their own generation than the children of light.” Luke 16:8b This line comes at the conclusion of the parable of the Dishonest Steward. Jesus told this parable as a way of highlighting the fact that the “children of the world” are indeed successful in their manipulation of worldly things, whereas the “children of light” are not as shrewd when it comes to worldly things. So what does this tell us? It certainly does not tell us that we should enter into a worldly life striving to live by worldly standards and working toward worldly goals. In fact, by acknowledging this fact about the worldly, Jesus is presenting us with a strong contrast as to how we should think and act. We are called to be the children of light. Therefore, we should not be surprised at all if we are not as successful in worldly things as others are who are immersed in the secular culture. This is especially true when we look at the numerous “successes” of those who are fully immersed in the world and the values of the world. Some are successful in obtaining great wealth, power or prestige by being shrewd in things of this age. We see this in pop culture especially. Take, for example, the entertainment industry. There are many who are quite successful and popular in the eyes of the world and we can tend to have a certain envy of them. Compare that to those who are filled with virtue, humility and goodness. We often find that they go unnoticed. So what should we do? We should use this parable to remind ourselves that all that matters, in the end, is what God thinks. How does God see us and the effort we give in living a holy life? As children of the light, we must work only for that which is eternal, not for that which is worldly and passing. God will provide for our worldly needs if we put our trust in Him. We may not become huge successes in accord with worldly standards, but we will obtain greatness in regard to all that truly matters and all that is eternal. Reflect, today, upon your priorities in life. Are you focused on building up riches that are eternal? Or do you continually find yourself caught up in the manipulations and shrewdness that has as a goal only worldly success? Strive for that which is eternal and you will be eternally grateful. Lord, help me to keep my eyes on Heaven. Help me to be one who is wise in the ways of grace, mercy and goodness. When I am tempted to live only for this world, help me to see what is of true value and stay focused on that alone. Jesus, I trust in You. If you were given the choice between worldly success, or failure, what would you choose? Oh, and if you choose success, it would lead you away from God while failure would draw you closer to him? Your choice? You want to bargain, don’t you? I want success and I promise to stay close to God. I promise! It’s possible of course, but we also know all too well that we are to be in the world and not of the world. As an author, the desire for success is hard-wired into my efforts. Yet, as a Catholic, I know God will not measure my success in book sales. The only thing that ultimately matters is the extent that I love and serve God and that means loving and serving others. True spiritual success tempers worldly ambition. If I had to choose between becoming a New York Times best-selling author but lose my soul, or to never get published but achieve great holiness, I would have to choose the latter. No doubt, it’s the same choice you would make. But what if instead of heaven and hell, the choice was between heaven and purgatory? Would you choose success in this world in exchange for delaying heaven? Please don’t tell me you are thinking it over. Success is in the Eye of the Beholder Some of the saints give us insight as to how to put God, work, and success into perspective. “Don’t you long to shout to those youths who are bustling around you: Fools! Leave those worldly things that shackle the heart – and very often degrade it – leave all that and come with us in search of Love!” -St. Josemaria Escriva “We can do no great things; only small things with great love.” -Blessed Teresa of Calcutta “Let us go forward in peace, our eyes upon heaven, the only one goal of our labors.” -St. Therese of Lisieux “Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you.” -St. Augustine Consider the story from St. Faustina, the polish nun and visionary who received the Divine Mercy devotion. She saw a priest obeying God on a task but his efforts were failing. “Why are you letting him fail when he is doing what you want?” St. Faustina asked Jesus. “Success in my eyes is not always success in man’s eyes,” Jesus responded. The priest was succeeding. He was following Jesus. God will not judge us on how others respond to us but rather on the degree to which we follow him. Whether one is an artist, a furniture maker, an architect, a full-time mother, etc., there are always temptations to desire success in the eyes of the world rather than first and foremost seeking to serve God above all else. Eight Ways to Make Success About God Imagine being on your deathbed after having achieved great worldly success. How much will it matter at that moment? Make your work about serving others at every opportunity. *Spend time before the Blessed Sacrament and focus on your relationship with Jesus. Time spent in union with God, helps to put the world in perspective. Don’t compare yourself with people achieving more or less success. One leads to jealousy and envy and the other to pride. It’s between you and God, no one else. Pray before beginning, pray in thanksgiving at work well done, and pray for those who will benefit from your work. Pray for those who help you, and pray for those who hinder you. Network with other serious Catholics in your field for support, perspective, and inspiration. Just as you celebrate your successes, celebrate your failures–or at least accept them. They hold lessons for holiness and learning. Help others. If helping someone else might create competition for you in some way, do it anyway and pray for his or her success. Your act of charity will bring you closer to God and protect you from selfish ambition while also trusting God with the outcome. Seeking success is not a Catch-22, but rather, an exercise in walking the fine line God laid out for us. “I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. So be as cunning as serpents and as innocent as doves” (Matt 10:16). In other words, we need to know the rules of the game in order to succeed but our heart must remain innocent and focused on God.